tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post5282076706006891717..comments2023-03-27T04:14:51.305-05:00Comments on Journey of the Stag Warrior: A Man's Life (Part II)The Computer Connoisseurhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00338071923698653047noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-73162827687764915742009-09-14T18:22:54.298-05:002009-09-14T18:22:54.298-05:00Very interesting post. My husbandalso caters to m...Very interesting post. My husbandalso caters to me but I am always quick to say thank you and tell him that he is appreciated. He also doesnt get much time with his friends these days because we have 4 very young children, but every once and awhile he us able to get out.<br /><br />I would never want to lose my husband. I am sorry you two can not work things out.Hylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05370684363916495048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-8934108600453343552009-09-14T11:43:01.490-05:002009-09-14T11:43:01.490-05:00Thanks everyone for the well wishes and kind words...Thanks everyone for the well wishes and kind words. It has been a difficult time for me in recent months, in more ways than one.<br /><br />And Celia, thanks for inspiring my next post (you'll see what I mean when you read it).The Computer Connoisseurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00338071923698653047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-30179906034932984152009-09-13T23:49:12.629-05:002009-09-13T23:49:12.629-05:00Thanks so much for the insight to your life Rayden...Thanks so much for the insight to your life Rayden! I love hearing about what goes on in the real lives of the people I respect in this great big blogging world. Keep us posted and keep your head up!Jupiter Greenmoonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08653727346483735592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-56029449947458220592009-09-13T21:20:46.526-05:002009-09-13T21:20:46.526-05:00Wow....that's 180 degrees different than I tho...Wow....that's 180 degrees different than I thought it would be...<br /><br />But, the honesty is refreshing. And you are 100% right. Once a relationship has been established in one vein, it is hard to go back. But you have to be honest with yourself and as you have pointed out, you can't rely on others for happiness. It comes from within. Took me awhile to figure that out too.<br /><br />Coming back from problems(be they $, drinking etc...) can be hard. But you are moving on and you and your wife are thinking of the kids first...and that matters most.<br /><br />Be well.AmyK.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06535065657961139523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-27407184524285012282009-09-13T17:03:36.715-05:002009-09-13T17:03:36.715-05:00Thank you for putting yourself out there. I think...Thank you for putting yourself out there. I think many of us can relate to your story. I know I can. <br /><br />AnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-59938557941234120452009-09-13T15:20:42.046-05:002009-09-13T15:20:42.046-05:00I read the first half of your post, and I thought ...I read the first half of your post, and I thought omg that's my life. I can relate very well to the doting on the spouse, doing everything they wanted, never voicing an opinion. Here I am 20 years later and I realize that my spouse and I aren't compatible. I too feel as though I was infatuated to the point of believing I was in love. Unfortunately for me, he doesn't want to divorce where as I do. We've been separated for 2 years but because I don't have a job and can't find one I live in the same house still. And also because he told me I couldn't have our daughters. <br /><br />I hope things work out for you. Wishing you all the best and Bright Blessings.Morgaine Pendragonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18121338493723791466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-9198657856220536632009-09-13T13:44:28.334-05:002009-09-13T13:44:28.334-05:00Thoughts to you, my friend.
Do what you must and ...Thoughts to you, my friend.<br /><br />Do what you must and let what you can.Waebenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17067100974388669863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1071490312318545486.post-42678383950965276302009-09-13T05:26:52.958-05:002009-09-13T05:26:52.958-05:00Wow Rayden...you really have looked at everything ...Wow Rayden...you really have looked at everything in a new light...I don't know what to say to you that would even begin to help...<br />I just hope for everyone's sake you all work it out in the best way you can...I'm no "councellor" so I can't advise you on anything, but I hope after all this, you are all happier and healthier people...All of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com